This module – The Power of Stories – was a bit of a difficult topic for me to wrap my head around; even if we don’t have a “story” to tell (in the conventional sense), the things that matter the most to us, our hopes and fears and inspirations, are all part of the individual narratives that we carry with us. This subject also forces me to consider a trend that I’ve been noticing around me, and is in fact occurring: people are not truly talking to each other, making eye contact, and taking the time to listen. A survey from Quantum Connections – Global Dialogue Initiative shows that 85% of Americans avoided bringing up a topic in the past 30 days because it might turn into an argument. 51% of this group say the country is becoming more curious. However, when asked about actual behaviors normally associated with curiosity (engaging with different views, seeking challenging information, changing their minds), the numbers drop significantly (Thorp, 2026).
It seems as though civilized conversation and sharing our stories is no longer occurring as frequently on a community level as well as on individual, interpersonal levels. I reflect on my extended family and their profound avoidance of painful memories, emotional rifts, things better left unsaid for fear of angry outbursts and the inevitable silent treatment and estrangement. Once uttered, it becomes like a bell that cannot be unrung. If my family is a microcosm of wider society as a whole, I fear that important stories will be lost to time and neglect.
I think of my aunt, who unexpectedly passed away earlier this year. Stories that made us cry and laugh were told at her funeral. But there wasn’t enough time before she passed during which any of us were able to speak with her about her story, in her own words and in her indelible voice; I will always regret this. I was thinking of my aunt when I came across StoryCorps’s animated shorts a couple of nights ago. I was watching PBS, and it was one of those things that popped up in between shows. Of course, I read about StoryCorps while covering the materials in the module, but unexpectedly seeing it in the course of real life hits a little bit differently. StoryCorps’s mission is astonishingly simple but powerful: “to help us believe in each other by illuminating the humanity and possibility in us all – one story at a time” (StoryCorps, n.d.). I’ve included the animated shorts here, but the beauty of its setup is how engaging the story is in its simplicity, how the animation draws you in, but most importantly, hearing a person’s voice narrating their own story. I appreciate StoryCorps because this is not just a random home video or a collection of photographs from a family album; there is intent and meaning to find the common humanity that we all seem to forget time and again.
Common Ground incorporates narrative inquiry within the succinct timeframe. These are simple but honest and true questions (how would you want to be remembered; when you think about the future, what are you most scared of; what are you most hopeful for) that we can all ask each other not just in terms of healthy dialogue, but also library improvements, services and programs (Stephens, 2020). StoryCorps has partnered with public libraries in the past as well as the Library of Congress to immortalize people’s stories and truth; it would be a labor of love and hard work for libraries to continue the conversation through One Small Step, a program powered by StoryCorps that fosters meaningful interactions in library spaces. Being our most authentic selves and revealing our vulnerabilities while also acknowledging our differences reveals nuances in personal dialogue that we would not otherwise find via texting or emails. I may be getting ahead of myself, but saying things out loud – especially the painful bits – can help people move forward with grace while also helping others who are listening and watching do the same for themselves.
References
Stephens, M. (2020, April 9). Office hours: Narrative inquiry. Tame the Web. Retrieved from https://tametheweb.com/2020/04/09/office-hours-narrative-inquiry/
StoryCorps (n.d.). About StoryCorps. Retrieved July 26, 2026 from https://storycorps.org/about/
StoryCorps. (2018, September 25). Common ground. [Video]. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DcTm0MpnoA
StoryCorps. (2021, September 16). A life of honor: A gay veteran recalls serving in silence. [Video]. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=98vvuE38oBs
Thorp, J. (2026, May 11). Why Americans are walking away from the difficult conversations that matter most. Quantum Connections – Global Dialogue Initiative. Retrieved from https://quantumconnections.com/why-americans-avoid-difficult-conversations/

